The terrible 2s??? Or what ever u call it

It is a nightmare. Something all parents never wish to face.

Jus now after dinner, D asked to fingerprint the new book I bought for him. So I asked him to sit in his high chair to do it. Then I asked him what the colors were n if could only do them if he knows the colors. Actually I'm still not very sure if he knows his colors or hw many he knows.
(out of topic, stupid crockroach, see him yest n today. n lost him again...arghh)
But I do know he knows some colors like red n green cos of traffic lights. So when we ask him the colors can see that he sort of not in the mood. Eyes on tv n keep repeating what we are asking him only. SO I told him he dunno the colors he cannot do finger print n cos its late already, jus come n sleep.
Then it started..............he jus started crying. Those crazy type of cry. I told hubby to jus go to work n leave him alone as I tot he would settle down soon after when he knows I'm not going to bother abt him. But NOOOOOOO, he didn't stop crying. He even cried louder n louder even after I warned him I would throw him outside the door if he continued crying.
Still crying, so I picked him out of the high chair n threw him outside the room door n closed it. Crying subsided, so I opened the door. He jus rushed back on the bed n hug his pillow. Okie I tot, that was it........but boy was I wrong. After a few sec of soft sound, he started crying AGAIN!! I warned him to stop but he didn't so off he go out the door again.
I know it is becos he is very tired n partly cos I refused to let him fingerprint. But I am a very stubborn person with not very good temper n patience .....so...........poor boy makes me even more fustrated when he doesn't stop crying. Doesn't help that E sometimes add to it by being tired n fussy too.
So on he went back to bed again n he started crying again so I asked him if he wanna go toilet or outside the door n he told me toilet. Okie so off he goes. N he even closed the door himself. So I let him be in there but he started screaming n screaming in between the crys. Called hubby who talked to him on the phone n it was worse cos he cried more. .........sigh
Only finally finally he started to really settle down. I told him he could only leave the toilet when I dun hear anymore sound from him. But the min he is on the bed he threaten to start crying again.......sigh
What is wrong with this boy man. Okie finally he falls asleep n jus now he woke n the sec he woke he starts crying again. OMG I'm going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okie after I really finally manage to calm him n stop his crying totally, I talked to him. Of cos he say he is a naughty boy.(Same like in between sobs he keeps saying he dun want to cry anymore)
Hubby says he's going to pluck the xia liu leaves n wipe him all over when he comes back. (If he remembers that is) I jus cross fingers he remember n it works.
Trying day tml for sure.

Poo baby POOO

Till date, Ember has not pooed for 5 days.
N she has taken yakult, prune, papaya, apple n pear juice. Need some help here........wat can we do???
Been massaging her tummy n doing the yoga massage that is supposed to make her poo too n........ NO USE.
Jus keep hearing n smelling her farts......sigh

N I am really very worried that her rash n hives will come back of she still doesn't poo. I see some red dots on her ear n leg.....crossing fingers that its not what I think it is.
I dun mind even if you dirty my bed or your clothes.

Poo baby please.......just POOOOOOO.

Ember's 1st Bday

It was definately an unforgetable day. Think the little girl sensed it n it was so hard to make her sleep. She jus kept talking n laughing even after korkor was asleep.

By next morn we had already realise that the balloons n door hangings are nowhere to be found!!! Talk abt heartache. I went down to collect them personally as I didn't wanna risk it coming after the bday n now it is jus..........NO WHERE!!! I've searched the whole hse n van. Can't even find the plastic bag. Arghhhhhh

N the person who took it home from the van of cos always doesn't know n remember where he left them. (nothing new here)

So I decided to go J8 to buy a balloon for them instead. While I was changing, (I kept looking over the kids) I saw D pulling his shorts from E n cos E was partially sitting on his shorts n holding them as well, D pushed E. N there I was at the other side of the bed so I could only SCREAMMMmmmmmmmmm. N look at E fall backwards off the bed.

She hit her head n had the biggest swollen blueblack right on her forehead.............sigh. N ofcos D kanna cane + scolding for pushing E. I quickly put cold compress to help with the swelling n hope she's okie for her bday.

While at J8, hubby came home to put the cake before he resumed the rest of his delivery. So when I got home n peeked at the cake then I realised. SHIT!!!! I forgot to tell the person I wanted 1.5kg means my cake is a tiny 1kg!!! OMG.......this day really isn't going well.

N we were having bbq n it had to keep raining n stopping n rain n stop from 8pm till abt 12am when it was quite sunny the whole day...........sigh

I was wishing for the day to end soon so all the horrible things would end but E kanna another knock under her eye when she walked towards the bed.

My poor little bday girl. But alas her mood was good n she was super high n happy the whole day despite all the hicups. Oh yah hubby got a summons too.....damn suay day right.

ITS WAR!!!!!

My patience has run thin. Okie it has been very thin for a very long time n I think I deserve some respect. That's it.............I do not want to tolerate this kind of attitude ANYMORE!!!

Jus now I told him if E's cake we gonna take square then right side we put figurine, left side put her name n front middle put the no.1 candle. N I said it with action TWICE cos he was a usual not paying attention to what I am saying. N still know what he asked me??
"So what will you put at the other corner?" CORNER?? WHAT CORNER?? WTF!!!!!
See he wasn't listening to me AGAIN!!!!!!! Even when he's not falling asleep!!
That's the last straw, I'm not gonna be a mummy he can't be taught n I'm not gonna bother talking to him already. He told me he was JOKING. JOKING????? Joke abt what?? LAME STUPID EXCUSE. Always full of his stupid excuses that dun even make sense.
Why can't he be responsible n admit he was not even listening?? That he's not bothered to listen to me talk?? That he's totally not interested??
He will always have some excuse that makes him not responsible for not listening not paying attention.
Its always "I forgot", "I didn't hear", or the best 1 "I know I know, I was going to do it already then u said".

Yest while on the cake topic he was the 1 who told me square cake better plus easier to cut also. So I emailed to ask if the cake can be square instead. N when I told him they said okie but additional $2 charge. Know what he said?? "Why u want square?? Cos easier to cut aah?" So now its MY FAULT again??

This is what we talked jus now abt E's rash
Me - I dunno if I should give E her med. Cos on 1 hand I dun wanna give cos wanna see if the chinese tui na works n I dun want E to keep eating meds. On the other hand I worry if she stop her meds, n the tui na dun work, the rash comes back then hw?? Poor girl will have to take what med?? N start taking steriods again?
Him - Dun give med lor dun give
Me - HUH ?? What u talking abt? Dun give what?
Him - Dun give all med lah the running nose the cough all dun give lor.

See the chicken n duck talk. Its always like this. Me talk to him trying to get an opinion rather then me talking to myself pros n cons n still dunno what I wanna decide. But endup I'm still talking to myself. Or rather i'm trying to talk to the wall again. N I even had to repeat more then once when I talk to that BIG STUPID IDIOTIC wall.

Respect?? He doesn't even know what it is. I'm getting really really really sick of trying to get his attention n then talking for 1 min n all he ever ans is "Huh? What did u say?" N when I repeat it he dozes off again n askes me again n again. Damn irritating right?? YES VERY. See I can ans myself. I dun need him.
Everytime I talk to him I endup fustrating myself no end till I need to murder somebody. So okie I'm not talking to him. Totally ignoring him is good for me. N i should think more of that KS pouch that i'm very keen to get. Maybe I should jus get that. Its good for my soul too.
Better then talking to that ass hole.