The terrible 2s??? Or what ever u call it

It is a nightmare. Something all parents never wish to face.

Jus now after dinner, D asked to fingerprint the new book I bought for him. So I asked him to sit in his high chair to do it. Then I asked him what the colors were n if could only do them if he knows the colors. Actually I'm still not very sure if he knows his colors or hw many he knows.
(out of topic, stupid crockroach, see him yest n today. n lost him again...arghh)
But I do know he knows some colors like red n green cos of traffic lights. So when we ask him the colors can see that he sort of not in the mood. Eyes on tv n keep repeating what we are asking him only. SO I told him he dunno the colors he cannot do finger print n cos its late already, jus come n sleep.
Then it started..............he jus started crying. Those crazy type of cry. I told hubby to jus go to work n leave him alone as I tot he would settle down soon after when he knows I'm not going to bother abt him. But NOOOOOOO, he didn't stop crying. He even cried louder n louder even after I warned him I would throw him outside the door if he continued crying.
Still crying, so I picked him out of the high chair n threw him outside the room door n closed it. Crying subsided, so I opened the door. He jus rushed back on the bed n hug his pillow. Okie I tot, that was it........but boy was I wrong. After a few sec of soft sound, he started crying AGAIN!! I warned him to stop but he didn't so off he go out the door again.
I know it is becos he is very tired n partly cos I refused to let him fingerprint. But I am a very stubborn person with not very good temper n patience .....so...........poor boy makes me even more fustrated when he doesn't stop crying. Doesn't help that E sometimes add to it by being tired n fussy too.
So on he went back to bed again n he started crying again so I asked him if he wanna go toilet or outside the door n he told me toilet. Okie so off he goes. N he even closed the door himself. So I let him be in there but he started screaming n screaming in between the crys. Called hubby who talked to him on the phone n it was worse cos he cried more. .........sigh
Only finally finally he started to really settle down. I told him he could only leave the toilet when I dun hear anymore sound from him. But the min he is on the bed he threaten to start crying again.......sigh
What is wrong with this boy man. Okie finally he falls asleep n jus now he woke n the sec he woke he starts crying again. OMG I'm going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okie after I really finally manage to calm him n stop his crying totally, I talked to him. Of cos he say he is a naughty boy.(Same like in between sobs he keeps saying he dun want to cry anymore)
Hubby says he's going to pluck the xia liu leaves n wipe him all over when he comes back. (If he remembers that is) I jus cross fingers he remember n it works.
Trying day tml for sure.